Thursday, September 10, 2009

mE aNd My BiG MoUtH !!!


Among the many things that we can learn in life, one is learning to keep our mouth shut when we really want to say something.
I have not been able to learn this method in life yet.
I feel honesty is the best policy, therefore, I'm gonna just be honest. I tend to "vent" on family members regarding issues that are the truth "in the family" and yes, should change. But, does it REALLY matter that much? o-come on, Penny, will it EVER CHANGE?
Hoping to get someone to make a move for the better, I just let 'em have it.... my opinion, that is.

I'm learning that no matter how much I complain, some people just don't have their priorities straight. There is nothing I can do to change that. I can throw a fit and DEMAND someone take care of their children, put them first and do them right! But, it falls back on me as guilt for ever even opening my mouth. In the end, there really is nothing I can do, but pray for them.

The bottom line is .....

and here it goes.......................the venting.......No matter how much you complain or give your opinion OVER AND OVER AND OVER, if someone wants to live their life like that, there is nothing you can do about it. If they want to rely on everyone else to pay their bills, take care of their kids 24-7, just so they can party life all out and drink it all up...

it does not change the fact that I should just let it be, and shut my mouth.

There is alot to learn from some people, no matter how stupid and selfish they are. I can be so cold hearted about people like that. I just call it as I see it. It is hurting me in the end, because I do not give it to HIM, I give it to THEM.

Someday, I will learn this lesson in life. Hopefully sooner, than later. Bail money is not in my family budget this month, or next, because I feel like slapping somebody.

1 comment:

  1. Wow Penny, are you angry or what?! I don't know who you let have it more, yourself or them. Hang on baby, what you are doing for those girls will never, ever be taken away from them. You are right, we can't change people, but God can, and He is in the business of answering prayers. So, keep praying and maybe someday. Maybe not. That's why they need you. Give the girls what you can and let the others take care of themselves, sometimes it's the only way. Love ya, will be praying.

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